There are so many people in a life that make such a difference. There are a few who merit being called Guiding Lights.
When I first met Erwin Neighbors he was teacher and I was an 11th-grade high school student. Mr. Neighbors taught English, American Literature in particular.
As a junior in high school I was extremely shy. I kept to myself. I was quiet, so quiet, many of my fellow students thought I was on the Honor Roll just as they were. But I wasn't. In fact, I never really liked high school.
The one thing I liked to do was write. It was poetry. And short stories. Writing was my outlet, how I converged with the world. Donald Spoto said of Tennessee Williams that Williams, while living in St.Louis was “painfully shy” growing up. That was me, as well.
But one way I could express myself, was through writing. Mr. Neighbors saw that and singled me out with quiet attention. He expeditiously had me join his Creative Writing Club, which met monthly after school. The club put out two magazines a year which were sold to the student body. And also a Christmas issue.
Mr. Neighbors was one of those rare teachers who made literature relational. Mr. Neighbors taught American Lit. my junior year. He not only taught us about our early American literary masters, but showed us photographic slides of the places we were learning about. We had read “Walden's Pond,” but Mr. Neighbors had been there. He had actual photos of Henry David Thoreau's place in the woods. There was real, present-day photographic evidence of the pond!
I remember to this day the entire school quarter we spent on reading and dissecting Nathaniel Hawthorne's The Scarlet Letter. It was about the genius of the book more than anything; the great symbolism it contained. Maybe that was why I did a book report that year on The House of Seven Gables. I didn't get the “E” I wanted, but the “S” or “S-” was good enough.
The other remarkable thing Mr. Neighbors did for us was to show us that writers-- especially-- were once living and breathing beings. It was so much more than the author's name in the Lit. book, followed by a birth-date and death-date. Again, he made literature relational, in this case taking us to hear a living and breathing poet at a near-by junior college. This was someone who didn't have a death-date under their name in the American Lit. book!
We found the grey-haired poet before us funny. “What is a pocket but a hole,” he quipped on stage, and we laughed. Or “Why are stamps adorned with kings and presidents? That we may lick their hinder parts and thump their heads.” (“Power to the People”). And we laughed again from the front row of the auditorium. Little did I know that I would 13 years later produce two Howard Nemerov poetry readings, the latter being his very last...
But back then I was just a shy, acne-covered high school student. And like my fellow Creative Writing Club members, trying to find a way into the world through a pen and a typewriter. And lots of mimeograph ink on our fingers...
Erwin Neighbors was the very real, but quiet, meticulous-- but better-- version of Kevin Kline in Dead Poets Society. We did indeed bloom under his guidance. He had an affinity and love of education, anything smart, and students who at least tried their very best. Even as he once quietly corrected my spelling of “seperate” to “separate” in study hall once. He never made me feel ashamedfor the mis-spelling.
Perhaps it was also because he was a fisherman, a hunter and archaeologist and lover of history that he understood the often still and quiet nature of young people. He was an observer. And he was able to solicit from us our very best. And seek us out. He was a proud father of the flock of writers that he so carefully guided and cultivated at Hermann High.
I think Mr. Neighbors had a certain facility to understand the angst of youth, as all such young men and women go forth to flex and try their wings from the nest that every high school is. Certainly his guidance went a long way to help a gaggle of 14 young people achieve their disparate but collegiate identities that school year. In his (our) issue of Counterpoint that year, Mr. Neighbors summed up the process in verse on his dedication page:
The Vernal Urge
In the springtime of years,
A migrant flock of chosen words
Are launched to test their wings,
Hoping that someone in darkness
Will hear their wild call
And pause to scan his sky
And think of that North of dreams
Toward which we are all drawn.
I truly hope that there are many more Erwin Neighbors out there in our world today. I certainly have been blessed and splendidly influenced by his brief but patient attention. My first book was dedicated to him.
In the succeeding years we infrequently shared correspondence. One thing is for sure. Erwin had the most extraordinary and beautiful handwriting I've seen, then or since. But then again, can any less be expected of a Guiding Light? Probably not...
Thank you, Erwin. You will be missed. And you are...
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Many, many thanks to Jessica Neighbors Hill for supplying the obituary and photograph of her father! Thank you, Jessica!
Charles Erwin Neighbors, 61, passed away May 3, 2009 at University Hospital in Columbia, Missouri. He was a resident of Moberly, Missouri.
Erwin was born August 11, 1947 in Unionville, Missouri to Chester V. Neighbors and Vivienne A. (Halliburton) Neighbors and grew up on a farm near Pollock, Missouri. He graduated from Green City R-1 High School in 1965. He attended college at Northeast Missouri State University, Kirksville, Missouri, graduating with a Bachelor of Science in education in 1969, a Master of Arts in 1971 and an Education Specialist in 1991. He married Jolene M. Emel in 1971; their marriage ended in 1995. His twin children Byron E. Neighbors and Jessica M. (Neighbors) Hill were born in 1977. At the time of his death, he was engaged to Dr. Patricia A. Miller, with whom he shared 13 loving years.
Erwin was a teacher, school administrator and professor. He taught secondary school English and social studies for 15 years, and was a secondary school principal for six years and a school district superintendent for six years. After his retirement, he became an adjunct instructor at Moberly Area Community College, where he taught English for eight years.
An avid hunter, outdoorsman, conservationist, archaeologist, historian, genealogist and travel buff, Erwin was dedicated to his many hobbies and associations. He was active in Optimist International, where he had served as Governor of the East Missouri District, and the Missouri Archaeological Society, where he had served on the board of directors. He was also a member of the Archaeological Conservancy, the National Trust for Historic Preservation, Defenders of Wildlife, the National Wildlife Federation, the National Muzzleloading Rifle Association, and the Truman State University Northeast Missouri Alumni Chapter. He was a long-time member of the First United Methodist Church in Kirksville, Missouri.
Erwin was a dedicated father and proud grandfather. He was preceded in death by his parents, and he is survived by his son Byron and wife Kimberly Neighbors of Columbia, Missouri; his daughter Jessica and husband Jason Hill of Owasso, Oklahoma; his two grandchildren Jacob Paul and Caitlin Marie Hill of Owasso, Oklahoma; his fiancĂ© Dr. Patricia Miller of O’Fallon, Missouri, and many friends.



















I wrote Charles and asked if he had any more. He sent several more. And I began to see the possibility of a book, one certainly that would showcase Charles' great gift of translation. The nation of Italy, mind you, had already awarded the St. Louis poet their highest award in the early 1970s for his many translations over the years, a special Order of Merit of the Italian Republic, Rank of Knight Commander.

